From
the April 7, 2004 edition of The Northeast News Gleaner
These
Two Are No April Fools
Nathan
and Sarah Lazowick celebrated their 75th Wedding Anniversary this
past Thursday on April Fools Day with some of their children and
their spouses, along with a special sister-in-law. Looking back
on that day in 1929, Nate (as he is known to friends) tells you
with a smile, “Always treat your wife like a lady”,
while Sarah chimes in right behind saying, “Treat your husband
like a king.” Nate knows something about kings, he rubs shoulders
with kings and queens frequently as he is an avid chess player
and belongs to the chess club “Kings and Queens”. This
has been one of his loves and has been since he was a boy nine
(9) years of age.
Nathan
was born and raised in South Philadelphia on April 10th, 96 years
ago and is the forth of five children. Sarah hales from West Philadelphia
and is the oldest child from a family of eight siblings; she was
born in 1912. While growing up in Philadelphia, their paths crossed
and as the cliché goes, “history was made.” Their
history includes their lives together working not only in a marriage,
but as business partners too. While Nate was a chicken dealer,
riding his bike around town selling chickens to the families throughout
the Philadelphia neighborhoods. Once in a while Nate and Sarah
would have business troubles due to someone stealing Nates’ bicycle.
This would happen as often as once a year and Nate would have to
purchase another bike to go on making a living for his growing
family. Sarah was the official stay-at-home mom who, like so many
mother’s today, worked the phones for her husband. She would
call their clients and cheerfully announce, “Hi, this is
the Chicken Lady. (as she became known to the neighborhood) How
many chickens can I get you this week?”
As
time past, the entrepreneur in Nate took a bold step from their
comfortable schedule and decided to try his hand at selling to
a restaurant. His son, Bernard fondly recalls how excited they
were that a restaurant actually bought FIVE chickens. “Wow”,
exclaims Bernard, “imagine getting excited over selling five
chickens”. But, back then five was a lot and Bernard smiles
as he says “Dad made about 47 cents on that whole deal.” Soon
Nate was selling on the campus of the University of Pennsylvania
to the school as well as the sororities and fraternities. Eventually
they were selling to caterers and were officially in the Restaurant
Supply business. As a result of selling chickens, Nathan and Sarah
proudly put all four of their children through college and to this
day all four are successful professionals in one business or another.
Nathan
and Sarah have raised their children, Bernard, Ellis, Donna Lee
and Melvin all of whom they talk about frequently with their neighbors
at Deer Meadows Retirement Community where they have lived since
May 10, 2000. Originally they started their marriage as a young
couple in West Philadelphia near 57th & Spruce, later moving
their family to the 57th and Winfield Avenues address where they
stayed until moving to Cottman Avenue and the Boulevard. They are
true natives of Philadelphia. They are also the proud grandparents
of eight young adults, ranging in age from 21 years old to 40.
The grand children have bestowed upon them eight wonderful great
grandchildren.
Nate
and Sarah found time in their busy schedules to also have some
fun. Many years ago Nate and Sarah would put on shows for the local
churches, synagogues, schools and nursing homes. They tried to
educate the public about, of all things, retirement living. In
fact, once they put a show on and a songwriter actually wrote a
song for Nate, which would sum up what Nate was all about, “He
was a little guy, but he could do BIG things.” And to this
day Nate does big things; he continues to perform for Temple University
with the Inner Circle group. They are a group of people who entertain
and teach intergenerational programs. Nate has performed on video
educational films portraying an elderly man in a nursing home.
This video had been made for the CARRIE foundation and is sent
to nursing and rehabilitation communities for staff education.
Nate
and Sarah are a living testimony of a commitment to marriage and
family. They now live at Deer Meadows Retirement Community at 8301
Roosevelt Boulevard. Their son Bernard says “They are happy
that as they are getting older, they can still be together. Mom
has some special needs but they can still be together due to the
assistance available in retirement communities. Mom never looked
so good. She gets the help she needs, and Dad can be independent,
going out and doing the things he still loves to do. I think Deer
Meadows gives a lot to them, but Dad gives a lot back. He loves
the people who live there and the staff seems to love him and Mom.”
Liz
Harbison, Director of Public Relations at Deer Meadows says, “Nate
just lights up a room as he meanders casually in, almost dancing
and making an appearance. And although he is not much taller than
4 1/2 feet, he seems to be so much taller when he constantly entertains.
Saying things like, “I used to be so much taller until I
moved in here; I think I got short changed.” Ms Harbison
states, “Nate’s sense of humor is wonderful. He and
Sarah are a breath of fresh air and an example to us all, we can’t
wait to see them celebrate their 100th wedding anniversary and,
I think they’ll be serving Chicken.”